David here, and if you’ve been disappointed at men and love and intimacy in today’s article, I’m going to share with you Why Love Is Important and not a luxury. So stick with me.
Now if you feel disappointed if love has punched you emotionally, if you feel like you’re about to throw in the towel, you’re not sure why you should go into this whole love thing. It’s overrated in your mind. Why Love Is Important? it’s not necessarily an elective. It’s not a luxury.
1. Becoming Attached to Another Person
These little things, while seemingly inconsequential, have had a profound impact on how civilization has functioned throughout the last five centuries.
Love is not just the feelings we have for other people; it is also the love we receive from others in return. Loving and being lovable is the anchor of one’s overall development and the future. A deep and caring bond with another person serves as a foundation for your personal and professional growth.
2. Love can help you learn about yourself
We may have hidden truths about ourselves if we’ve fallen in love. Loving someone often causes us to recognize aspects of ourselves that we previously may not have realized were there. Everything we like, our tastes, our moral values, our thoughts, and our instincts reveal a great deal about our character when we take the time to examine ourselves. It is especially true in romantic relationships.
3.Love encourages Sexual activity.
There’s no better way to satisfy the sexual urge than by having sex with someone you love. Sex and intimacy are frequently linked, which means they go together. Additionally, oxytocin is released during sex, contributing to feelings of intimacy and a strong bond. A committed relationship naturally fosters greater commitment and emotional attachment. Engaging in sexual activity conveys affection, which has a powerful influence on the stability of long-term relationships. As a result, people who have sex are less likely to get divorced. and that’s why love is important.
4. Love provides a lot of encouragement.
When you are in love, you strive for improvement in everything you do, not just for vanity’s sake. Love is an inspirational quality in that you always want to do better. That would be to say, the reason you want your partner to love you more is not only because you want him or her to love you more but also because you want to accomplish more in life, identify opportunities, and aim higher. When you think positively, your optimism also becomes apparent, and that matters.
5. Love is a transformer and a teacher
The phrase also suggests that love can lead to dramatic reforms. Are you irritated by your significant other because of an annoying habit of yours? If you are in love, it is likely that you will succeed in overcoming these annoying habits. Also, if you go above and beyond to make things work, and your relationship falls apart due to causes outside of your control, you will learn a great deal regardless of the heartbreak. Don’t be hard on yourself if you have one bad customer service.
If you’re in love, then you’re in a position to build your life on a solid foundation. This means that whatever future you see, however you plan to proceed, and wherever you are headed, you have someone who supports you, believes in you, desires in seeing you succeed, and is willing to listen to you. Everything in life depends on love.It is nearly impossible to find love unless you love yourself first, and nearly impossible to keep it once you have found it. To love yourself and your true identity implies that when you fall in love, it will be because of genuine attraction to another person, who may or may not have specific traits you admire (inner and outer beauty, and personality).
Caring for yourself means having fewer expectations in a relationship, making you less needy and less demanding, resulting in a relationship that is not only filled with love but is better than ever.
To truly know the importance of love, it is essential to know how to love yourself, and to understand that without self-love, one cannot expect to experience true love.
There are two aspects of Love. The first one is clear.
There’s a strong pool inside of you.
There’s that feeling of wanting to belong, there’s a feeling of wanting to be desired. There’s that feeling of wanting to be loved and embraced made love to there’s that feeling of wanting to feel magnetic and in unison with somebody other than yourself.
So the first aspect of why I love is a need is because if you go deep down inside and you remove the bag at you remove the pain, there’s a yearning in your heart for more.
There’s a yearning in your heart to express yourself in ways that you wouldn’t just within yourself. Now the second aspect of Love is what I want to focus more on because it’s not the one that’s most talked about and the second aspect of Love, not been an elective is because of who you transform into when you consciously step into a powerful relationship first aspect of this transformation is
6 . Selflessness
If you really love your partner, if you really love the human being that you’re with. you need to become more selfless because you’re going to have to negotiate, you’re going to have to sacrifice some things you’re going to have to compromise but you’re going to have to give more of yourself.
You’re going to have to give more of yourself than you would have. If you didn’t step into that relationship you’re going to have to tap deeper inside of yourself and be
- more vulnerable
- be more generous a
- and be more expressive and be more alive.
So, in essence, the transformational nature of love means that there’s a human being deep down inside of your blueprint of a human being, a potential of infinite proportions.
That will not come out in quite the same way or in the same depth or in the same aliveness. If you keep it within yourself the second aspect is
7. Transcendent aspect of love
which is when you step into a conscious loving relationship you allow the giving and the sacrifice and the love and the font and the play and the excitement and the lovemaking and all of it to help you transcend.
Why because you’ll be gone one day from sad to admit it, but it’s true, and when you’re gone the seed that you plant in somebody’s heart will stay there for as long as that person’s leave leaves and that person will in turn plant the seed of your heart into other Hearts based on how you express.
And sacrifice for that human so that’s the Transcendent aspect of it. Where there’s you that’s Fully Alive even after you’re gone. The third aspect of Love is Gratitude.
8. Love provides more gratitude.
There’s a deep sense of gratitude that comes into play when you recognize that you have a partner in crime, a best friend, a lover, an advocate, somebody to contend with, and sometimes fight with.
I mean you have that human being in front of you that’s making your life so much more meaningful, so much more expressive, so much more just fun and Alive than if you were to just keep it all within yourself or have the kind of relationship that you can have with friends. It’s not quite the same thing as friendships have their place but this is a friendship.
That’s a lot of worship as well as it’s your friend and lover at the same time that unique combination is unlike any other relationship that you can have and the feelings of gratitude that come as a result.
Being seen and loved and appreciated in that specific intimate Dynamic helps you to experience more of that blessing of what life can bring the last aspect.
9. Love helps you overcome suffering.
I want to talk about today’s inevitable suffering that life brings and your ability to overcome the inevitable shit storms that will and your way as positive as I want to be as objective and optimistic as I want to be, life will inevitably land us some shit storms and you will experience an offering.
you will experience loss and you will experience pain and you will experience NASA’s are prizes and to have that human being by your side who’s carrying some of that burden with you and where you can do the same thing for another human being makes the inevitable suffering of life.
- much more manageable,
- much more doable
- much more palatable With your soul more intact
The difficulty of finding love is strong but it pales in comparison to the mystery of not finding it. So there you have it doesn’t compare that trajectory of finding love to watching Netflix with your girlfriends because that’s not the comparison.
The comparison is against what would happen in your life. If you don’t get the experience of being able to connect that way, Express that way, a sacrifice that waits, give that way transcend that way hope this is helpful to you.
In summary here are 9 reasons why love is important:
Love can help you learn about yourself
Love helps you overcome suffering.
Love provides more gratitude.
Transcendent aspect of love
Love is a transformer and a teacher
Love provides a lot of encouragement.
Love encourages Sexual activity.
Becoming Attached to Another Person