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When a guy says he loves you what do you say

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It’s no surprise that men are scared of commitment. I mean, it takes a lot for someone to say “I love you” and then expect the person they’re saying it to reply with something like “Me too.”

That’s one reason why many women might be hesitant when they hear this phrase from a guy.

It can feel scary because we don’t know what he expects or wants in return. What should we say?

But before you start worrying about how to respond, just remember that there is nothing wrong with not feeling ready or able to reciprocate those feelings at the time.

In fact, most people need time and space before they’re ready for such an intense commitment-and some never get there at all!

So if you’re not ready for it and you hear the words “I love you,” take a deep breath and say:

“Thank you.”  Why? Because, at most, it means that he’s the one who is vulnerable.

And considering how strong his feelings must be for him to tell you such an intimate thing, isn’t it nice of him to be honest with you? It’s a nice gesture for you to appreciate it.

And by saying “thank you,” he will realize that there is no need for commitment from your end at the moment, and he might back off a bit.

If you’re on a date or somewhere where it’d be more appropriate, try something like this:

“Thank you. I had a really nice time tonight.”

That way, he’ll know that it doesn’t have to be a love commitment on your end for you to appreciate him and enjoy spending time with him.

Nice things to say in response to “I love you” from the guy who loves you back:

“I love you too.”

The problem can arise when these words do come out of your mouth and then things get way more serious than they should.

If that does happen, don’t panic! It’s not the end of the world. Simply apologize and explain to him that it was a slip-up and what you meant to say was…

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“I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to say that.”

Again, it’s important to let him know you enjoy spending time with him and appreciate his feelings-but that not reciprocating them doesn’t diminish your feelings for him.

If he presses the issue by asking “how is this different than saying ‘I love you?'” you may try something like…

“Well, I do care about you and think you’re an amazing person, but when I say ‘I love you,’ it means that I’m in love with you.”

Explaining your reason for not saying “I love you,” will help him understand why you did what you did-and hopefully he won’t feel hurt.

If you both agree to move slowly in your relationship, this will make it easier for the next time he wants to say “I love you” or hear it from you.

It’s no secret that saying “I love you” has a lot of weight behind it. It means something serious and important-and if said out of the blue, it can be overwhelming for someone to hear.

So if a guy is comfortable enough with you and his feelings to let those words come out of his mouth, make sure you appreciate him and take your time getting around to saying them back-i

f at all! Remember: he already knows how you feel about him; anything else is just icing on the cake.

If you’re not sure that you love him yet, don’t worry! Just say “thank you” so he knows he hasn’t scared you off.

And if even after some time has passed and you still haven’t said it back, there’s no need to feel guilty or like something is wrong with your relationship.

Just wait until you’re ready and when you are, the words will come out naturally.

If a guy says “I love you” and he means it, there is no reason for him to be surprised or offended if the woman he’s saying it to isn’t able to say it back right away!

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Remember… not everyone is looking for a serious commitment and some people aren’t at a point in their lives where they feel comfortable saying “I love you.”

Don’t let your fear of not knowing how to respond keep you from having the relationship that’s important to you.

Remember, honesty is always best-and he’ll most likely appreciate your honesty more than playing games with him!

If you’re not interested in the guy at all, let him down easy. It isn’t easy to tell someone no and it can be even harder when you’ve been dating them for a long time or have gone through thick and thin with them.

Telling a guy that you don’t feel a thing for him is also hard-but try not to take it too personally and don’t lie and say that you do.

If the guy is insistent, try something like this:

“I’m flattered but I don’t feel the same way about you.”

It may seem like a lot of unnecessary information for him at such a difficult time, but if you want to be honest, it’s best to explain why you don’t love him back.

“I can really see myself being friends with you, but I’m just not looking for anything more right now.”

By saying this, he won’t think that there is something wrong with either of you or the relationship-he’ll simply know that it isn’t what you want right now.

It’s important to be kind and straightforward with him, so he understands that it isn’t him-it’s just the timing.

If a guy says “I love you” and there aren’t any romantic feelings on your end, don’t feel like you have to say anything back!

Some people enjoy the company of someone they hardly know and know that romantic feelings will come over time, so it’s okay to not love someone back.

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If he continues to push you for a reply and presses on the topic, try something like:

“I’m glad we’re friends.”

Being your authentic self is important no matter how uncomfortable it may be.

Honesty in this situation will help him understand that you aren’t interested in being in love with him, so he can move on.

Something else to remember is not to take it too personally when someone says “I love you” and doesn’t get the response they are looking for. It isn’t all about you-it’s about their feelings!

Put yourself in their shoes and try to imagine how you would feel if the situation was reversed. And as always, remember that honesty is key!

Final words: When a guy says he loves you what do you say.

If you’re not sure that you love him yet, don’t worry! Just say “thank you” so he knows he hasn’t scared you off.

And if even after some time has passed and you still haven’t said it back, there’s no need to feel guilty or like something is wrong with your relationship.

Just wait until you’re ready and when you are, the words will come out naturally.

If a guy says “I love you” and he means it, there is no reason for him to be surprised or offended if the woman he’s saying it to isn’t able to say it back right away!

Remember… not everyone is looking for a serious commitment and some people aren’t at a point in their lives where they feel comfortable saying “I love you.”

Don’t let your fear of not knowing how to respond keep you from having the relationship that’s important to you.

Remember, honesty is always best-and he’ll most likely appreciate your honesty more than playing games with him! If you’re not interested in the guy at all, let him down easy.