There are some things you can do to make him crave you without having to resort to being nagging or mean.
You should always be on your toes with this guy, but it would be nice if he could have a little more of a reason to miss you-or at least think about how awesome it would be to see you again soon.
Here are eight ways to make him crave you!
- 1. Be a little bit unpredictable
- 2. Be affectionate in public
- 3. Be loving and sweet
- 4. Spruce up your style
- 5. Don’t be afraid to make the first move
- 6. Do something unexpected
- 7. Hang out with his friends
- 8. Get physical
- 9. Let him know you’re not available
- 10. Be supportive
- conclusion: how to make him crave you
1. Be a little bit unpredictable
While it’s good to be on your toes when you’re with him, it’s also important that you seem like a fun girl.
Don’t always ask for his opinion-sometimes surprise him! Do something out of the ordinary and take him somewhere new or unexpected.
This is the key to people usually wanting more of what they can’t have: if you are always available, there isn’t any thrill of the hunt anymore.
Having an element of surprise makes every date feel special again, even if it wasn’t meant to be one at first!
2. Be affectionate in public
This is huge if he still has feelings for you but he knows it will never happen because you had a nasty breakup or you have a boyfriend. He might even know that he has no chance with you, but those feelings don’t just go away. Showing him some affection is a great way to make him crave you without having to put yourself at risk of being rejected. It’s a win-win!
3. Be loving and sweet
I know it can be hard to turn on the sugar when someone hurts us, but being nice is always going to get you further in life than being mean. When he knows he has hurt you, this is a great time to show him how sweet and kind you can really be! If your breakup was done amicably (without any fighting), he may miss the good times more than anything else; remind him of some happy memories you have together. This is a great way to subtly remind him of what he’s missing!
4. Spruce up your style
Sometimes all it takes for him to start craving you is a little wardrobe change. Rather than wearing something boring every day, pick out one really cute outfit and wear it when you see him next. If you don’t want to get caught changing in the bathroom before he gets there, just slip on whatever shoes are fastest when you answer the door! It’s important not to be too revealing-you’re looking cute , not sexy . And don’t go overboard by looking like a completely different person; subtle changes are always best because they give off that “new look” feel without being overdone.
5. Don’t be afraid to make the first move
If you want him to miss you, it’s sometimes as easy as taking charge! Don’t wait for him to text or call-that may take a while if he’s really not into you anymore. Send a little message letting him know that you’re thinking about how much fun you all had last time and ask what his schedule looks like this week. If he thinks that he has a chance with you again, he’ll start craving your attention and affection even more than before!
6. Do something unexpected
A great way to get someone’s attention is by doing something they don’t expect. If you go out with him on a date or have hung out with your friends in the past, surprise him by inviting him to join you!
Depending on how long it has been since being together, he may be nervous that he did something wrong but just not sure what it was…or if he even wants to go down that road again, especially if he had nothing to do with the breakup.
7. Hang out with his friends
Doing things with him and his friends is a little risky, but if you are “just friends” with him, it’s pretty safe.
He probably misses the times when you were all hanging out together so being included again will definitely bring up some felt he was trying to forget.
If he confides in his friends about what happened between the two of you, they’ll likely let him know that they’re rooting for him to get back together!
8. Get physical
This one is pretty obvious…but if you haven’t kissed or at least fooled around since your break up, now might be just time to do it!
Use discretion here-if you feel like this can lead to something more serious (or more often) than kisses, keep the physical contact to a minimum.
If it’s been a while since you’ve been intimate, he might be craving those good memories more than anything else!
9. Let him know you’re not available
It doesn’t hurt to let him know that you’re seeing someone if you are-and make sure he knows that it isn’t going anywhere!
Knowing that his feelings aren’t going to come between your new relationship will make him want things to go back to the way they were more than ever before.
Plus, there’s nothing hotter than knowing your ex wishes he had what you have with someone else! Just remember-don’t rub it in his face.
No one likes being reminded of their failed relationships or former mistakes, no matter how happy they are to be out of it!
10. Be supportive
Maybe he’s not interested in coming back to you but that doesn’t mean things have to end on a bad note!
If he needs your support when hard times hit or there is something big that he has to celebrate, make every effort to be supportive even if it isn’t easy for you.
It may take time but eventually, you’ll know exactly how he reacts in certain situations and will know the right times when his guard is let down so you can show him exactly what he’s missing.
There you have it! Just a few little things you can do to make him crave you.
Of course, there are so many other ways to keep your guy interested and coming back for more but those are just some of the basics.
Now that you’ve got all the tools you need, it’s time to go implement them! It won’t be long before he’s missing what it is like when he was with you and is dying to get back together with you again.
conclusion: how to make him crave you
You can make him crave you without resorting to being nagging or mean.
It may take time but eventually, he’ll know exactly how you react in certain situations and will know the right times when his guard is let down so you can show him what he’s missing.
Now that you’ve got all the tools for making your guy crave again, it’s time to go implement them! You won’t have long before he misses what it’s like to be with you.
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