What do men want? It’s a question that has been asked since the beginning of time. But, thanks to modern science and technology, we may finally have some answers!
The most important thing you need to know is that there are three types of guys in this world: those who like you (or at least act like they do), those who don’t like you but find themselves attracted to you anyway, and those who are indifferent. Which one do you think he wants from you? The answer might surprise you!
2. Pay attention to his body language and non-verbal cues
You may be surprised to find out that there are many non-verbal cues a guy gives off when he is interested in you. The first step is to pay attention to his body language. If he’s looking at you often, listening intently when you talk, and leaning towards you during conversation then there is a good chance he might like you. For more definitive proof, you can ask him what he wants from you.
3. Determine if you want the same thing.
If you want the same thing, then you’re on the right track. If he wants a little more than you, like his number or an inviting hug, then you can decline politely before it becomes uncomfortable.
But if it seems like he’s just as interested in dating and exploring your mutual feelings as you are, then go for it! No matter what the outcome is, make sure to be polite and upfront about how you feel.
If you are unsure of his intention then you can ask him what he wants. He will most likely tell you the truth and if he does not, then it is a sign that something else is going on that needs to address. Whatever the outcome, be straightforward with your feelings as well.
4.He may want to introduce you to his loved ones.
A man may invite you to an event that has significance for him and his family. The man might be committing himself and he wants to know if you are on board with this or not. This may also mean that the guy wants to spend more time with you.
Dining out together is another activity that can signify a date. If the guy invites you to an expensive place, then he is probably trying to impress you. However, if the guy does not mention anything about money being spent or any special occasion, then it may just be a simple dinner date.
5.. If you’re unsure of his intentions, ask for clarification in a straightforward manner
Men are not always the easiest to read. It is very difficult to tell whether they want something from you or not, and this can often leave us feeling frustrated, embarrassed, and confused. So here are a few ways you can figure out what a guy wants from you!
If he touches you a lot, then it is probably because he likes you.
He may want to tell you how much he appreciates your presence and company. However, if the guy just brushes past you or touches you gently when offering something, this may not mean anything as well.
He might be asking for favors from you– such as to help him out with his homework, or maybe he wants to borrow some money. Or he might even be asking if you would like to do him a favor and accompany him on this event that has special significance for him.
Similarly, if the guy is taking time off from work or skipping an activity just so he can spend more time with you, then he probably likes you a lot.
You can often tell whether a guy wants to spend time with you or not by the way he maintains eye contact during conversations.
If the guy looks away constantly, chances are that he is not interested in whatever it is you are talking about.
But if you notice him looking at you directly and intensely, then this could mean that he is trying his best to make eye contact with you.
If the guy likes you a lot, then he will probably try to appear at places where he knows you will be. However, if the guy just happens to be in the same place as you and has no reason for being there specifically, then it may not mean anything.
If you notice that the man is trying to spend more time with his friends, this is probably a roundabout way of telling you that you are not important to him.
6.When you’re on a date, make sure to ask him questions about himself and show an interest in his life
– What is your favorite restaurant?
– What kind of music do you like to listen to?
– What are some things that you have done for fun in the past month?
– When was the last time you went on a date and what were some things about it that stood out for you?
– What are some of your favorite movies?
– What is the last book you read?
– When was the last time you laughed so hard that you cried?
– What is something interesting about you that I haven’t already asked or known about?”
This list of questions should give a good general idea of what kind of guy you are dealing with. If you notice a pattern, for example, that he is spending more time with his friends than usual and he seems distant when talking to you, then it probably means that he has lost interest in you.
At the end of the date or the conversation, if a guy likes you or wants to see you again, then he might tell you that he had a nice time. Or he might even ask to see you again or go for coffee together some time. On the other hand, if the guy does not suggest going out together again- then it is probably because he doesn’t want to.
Conclusion: how to tell what a guy wants from you
If you want to find out what a guy wants from you, the best thing is to ask him.
Men tend to be straightforward and honest about their feelings when they are asked point-blank questions.
So if he’s been giving off some mixed signals, just ask him outright how he feels about you or where this relationship might be going.
The worst that could happen is that he doesn’t feel the same way as you do- but at least then it won’t seem like there was any ambiguity on his end!