Hey it’s David here from relationshipadvicetip again, today I’m going to show you how to tell if your guy is still seeing other women.Oh all right so I’ve had a lot of you right in asking me this question about how do you tell if the guy you’re seeing is still seeing other girls.
A lot of women wonder this and it’s super common I think for any of us when we’re first dating someone you like are they exclusive? aren’t they what’s their situation look ?I’ll give you six tips today to help you tell whether he’s seeing other women and kind of increase the level of likelihood in your mind that he is.
But before I do as a prelude I always tell this to women one of the biggest mistakes I see girls make in dating is to assume exclusivity when it’s never been stated never ever assume a guy is not seeing other women unless he’s actually said that to you.
It’s a way you can really get hurt it’s not a good assumption to be making and if the guy hasn’t said he is then technically even though it’s a little doggish. he still is okay to do that so make sure you don’t make any assumptions in dating and you’re a lot less likely to be hurt in the long run by them with that being said there are some ways to tell if you feel like it’s too early to ask him or it’s a bit weird there are some ways to kind of tell if he’s still seeing other women.
1 is does he kind of drop off the radar?
when he’s not with you so a guy who say really warm when he sees you but then disappears for a while he could well be seeing other women so
2 does he just see you for sex?
is it mostly about sex odds are if it’s just a sexual kind of thing there might be other girls around as well.
3 is he seeing you regularly?
so are you guys seeing each other three or four times a week you know it’s still possible he’s seeing other girls if you are both seeing each other that frequently but it’s kind of doggish on his part on the other hand if you’re only seeing each other twice a week or even once a week it’s probably going to be more likely that there’s still other people in the picture.
4 he’s not happy to make advance plans with you?
so I always use the guideline of between half and as long as you’ve been dating so saving dating a month and you suggest to do something in say two or three weeks time and he’s a bit funny about it the reason he’s funny about it could be he’s not going to know where he’s out he’s got other girls to balance out and he’s not sure where he sees the future for the two of you.
5 he hasn’t opened up on a more personal level?
so as a guy we are really like being vulnerable so if we’re vulnerable with you it’s going to mean that you mean more to us than a go we’re not people odds are if the guys opened up to you on a much more personal level.
you get a sense that he wouldn’t be doing this with everyone and there’s a lesser chance of seeing other girls on the other hand if he’s superficial with you if your relationship feels quite surfacing more of a chance that he’s going to have relationships like that Submariner photo girls.
6 is taking things quite slowly?
now there’s nothing wrong with this in fact it’s actually healthy if he is multiple dating thinks doing your favorite who’s only seen you once or twice at the most per week a lot of people take casually to start with that’s totally normal and there’s good reasons behind multiple dating that we’re going to go into in another article.
but it’s important that you don’t kind of over invest in someone while they’re still doing that it’s a bit of a dog act if he’s seeing three or four times a week and still seeing other women at the same time so he’s taking thing quite slowly it could just mean that you want to slow a healthier start to your relationship and that he needs time to sort of decide.
if you’re the girl he wants to commit exclusively to and the same is true for you if you’re only seen in once a week make sure you don’t close off your other options that still give up the guy’s a chance so go I hope that gives you six kind of guidelines to tell if a guy might still be seeing other women.
just remember never to make that assumption because I think a lot of women that I seek it really hurt by assuming guys exclusive when he hasn’t actually said so if you really want to know have the conversation with him we’re going to post another article I’ll pop it up afterwards how to ask a guy he wants to commit to you.
make sure you let me know your thoughts comments questions I love to hear from you tell me what you want to hear pick the pick the mind of a guy let me know your thoughts on how to tell a guy how to tell if a guy is seeing other girls as well if you have other ideas or things you’ve noticed with yourself or friends.
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