You really want to make him miss you so bad but you don’t have any idea where to start and perhaps make him miss you. In today’s article I’ll be giving you some basic steps to follow in order for him to miss you so bad
When we say we miss someone, it means that we’re longing for emotional and physical affection and a relationship from him or her. but in reality, we not receiving that affection or perhaps the same feeling.
You might be in a relationship but you feel like you not been appreciated or perhaps you had recently broken up with your partner but you still miss him.
In any case, we will go through some of the steps to make him miss you and scale his longing for you.
#1. Pull the plug on communication.
This is really hard to stop because you miss him so much.
but you have to stop starting any sort of communication if you really want him to you. That means NO more texting or perhaps calling. after a while, he is going to notice and feel confused as to why you have out of the blue gone quiet. That creates curiosity which what you want to make him miss you ultimately.
Leave him alone for a while. let him realize and contemplate how better, nicer, and sweeter things were when he was with you. .Cutting off communication will realize that you are still in control and he will pretty much want to contact you as soon as possible.
I know the urge to reply back instantly especially when you’ve been waiting for a while but you’ve got to have a little bit of patience and that will for sure increase his longing and craving for you.
#2. Focus on Yourself.
Every now and then people like to show how much they love their partner and in doing so, they forget themselves in the process. You don’t want to dissatisfy and disappoint them.
You take every opportunity to please them or perhaps to call, hung around, or text and that’s fine but if you want to make him miss you, you’ve got to prioritize yourself and put all the attention onto yourself.
You can acquire new hobbies such as reading, going out with your friends, hiking, swimming and fill out your calendar with all your new hobbies and when he connects with you again, tell him that you are busy.
in doing so, he will definitely make him miss you even more because the attention is on YOU and not HIm.
#3. Be marvelous and unpredictable.
This means that you don’t have to reveal every small or minute detail of your life on a daily basis. he has to earn your trust, you want him to have that curiosity and astoundment for him to miss you.
when you are hanging out with your friends and he wants to spend time with you, tell him that you have other plans and you don’t have to go beyond that or perhaps make him feel better.He’s got to honor and value your precious time.
#4. Use social networks.
Occasionally, you might want to use social networks such as Facebook to your benefit by illustrating to him that you have your own life and that you’re enjoying it.
Let him see all those new pictures that you’re posting with your friends and family members.
He is going to realize your new hobbies through social networks. Be genuine and don’t post fake pics and have fun and surely he is going to want to be part of your life and miss you.
Most men love this idea of knowing if you have a life besides them and that of course means being independent.
what smarter way to demonstrate to him than expressing your daring experience with him obliquely or indirectly. with that in mind, using the social network will increase the chances of him missing you, and he’s going to take notice of your adventures live.
#5. Don’t always be accessible and free.
You don’t always have been available for him especially when he texts you or perhaps calls you without notice.
If you don’t respond to his text, it sends the signal that you’ve got other things going on and he going to remember how everything was available to him prior and he’s going to miss all those privileges.furthermore, it will encourage him to prepare in advance and make preparations because he knows that you’ve got other plans and not ideally waiting for his text to calls.
bear in mind restricting your availability is going to drive him crazy and make you feel good.
#6. Avoid expressing how much you’ve missed him.
I know this can be daunting especially when you are really missing him but don’t show him any signs of attachment. keep it casual, calm, relaxed, and of course fun.Don’t show him any signs of discomfort even if he doesn’t show you how much he misses you.
I understand the frustrations and hesitations to follow all these suggestions is daunting and difficult. I can imagine what you’re thinking.
- what if he finds someone else when I am not available?
- If I don’t text him, he’s going to think that I don’t love him or perhaps care about him.
All of these are driven by fear of rejection which is normal. But you’ve got to conquer and overcome your fear. and you’ve got to take the risk and uphold your standard as a high-quality woman.
If he rejects you, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re the problem, but it rather means you’re not meant to be together.
Let me know in the comment section below what your thought are with my suggestions above or perhaps whether you agree or disagree. I’d love to read your comments. please share with your friends.