All of these tips can also work if you want to be a good boyfriend, but let’s just be honest. The title is more catchy if it’s how to be a good girlfriend. If you like this article, make sure to go ahead and comment below . let’s get into it.
Okay, so obviously every single relationship is completely different but there are a couple of common things that make any relationship better. So let’s start off with number one.
This is a gimme but learn how to communicate
by that I don’t just mean like talk about your feelings, but learn how to listen to you know, when you’re fighting or even debating something or having a lively conversation a lot of the times at least I and sitting there thinking like, oh, yeah, they said that well, I’m going to say this next time once they finish talking blah blah blah. They have an opinion. Here’s what I’m going to say.
Shut up, and listen to what they’re saying actually listen actively.
Listen, and then when it’s your turn think about it for a second and respond that is how you have a proper conversation and also kind of on that same point learn how to apologize because it’s not a real apology if you’re like, well, I’m sorry you feel that way. It’s like no, I’m sorry. I was a dick I won’t do that anymore. Okay moving on second one is yeah,
Go ahead and change yourself.
I’ve seen so many of these articles where people are like don’t ever change yourself no matter what under any circumstances, but that is not realistic as a human being you’re constantly growing and changing and when there’s a new person in your life. Obviously, you’re going to kind of bounce off of each other and grow and change together.
But that being said it is worth noting that you shouldn’t change yourself into something that you think they’ll like better. They’re dating you because they like you so trust in that and speaking of trust trust them if you feel the need to go through their phone their emails log in to their Facebook behind their back, this is a shit.
Okay, no matter what your excuses. If you feel that need to do that.
It’s not a healthy relationship.
You should re-evaluate and as far as trust grows, you have to take that on to yourself as well and be trustworthy and to do that. You have to be honest.
Here’s the thing. You can be honest 110 percent of the time but then live once and get caught in that lie and every one of your other actions are going to be pulled into question here. So you should be with a person that you feel comfortable being honest with and that does take time but just keep the lines of communication open and it’ll keep your relationship healthier trustworthy and honest here’s a little bit more of a specific one, but by God have an opinion. Oh my God. I cannot tell you how many times I have actually read emails where girls answered this kinda questions .
Where do you want to go eat? And the guy was like, oh my God, I didn’t think you were going to say anything because everyone else says, I don’t know honey. You choose whenever someone asks me where I want to go and eat I know exactly where I want to go eat. It’s right there in my mind. I want to go and eat. Pizza or pasta or something else that’s going to make me gain 10 pounds in one night.
And sometimes they(women) don’t tell them when they ask they just say something stupid. Like I don’t know. I’m good with whatever and then whatever they suggest we’re like.
Mmm Tacos No or steak know and we just want them to read our minds and guess what’s right and that is crazy because no one is a mind reader men or women.
Nobody my God, you have an opinion say it say it because if you don’t if you’re just that silent person who doesn’t have an opinion on anything.
I cannot tell you how boring you are get an opinion. Here’s one thing that is so vitally important to me in any relationship and it’s something that I require from myself. Is that no matter what I get into. I always have a life outside of a person because I never want to be totally wrapped up in my relationship. That’s not my identity. I’m an entire person outside of that. I Hobbies and hopes and dreams and opinions outside of the person that I’m dating.
So I’m going to bring that into the relationship. I’m going to continue to see my friends and explore my hobbies and go after my career goals and I’m coming into this relationship as a whole person with a life outside of them and I want them to come in with a life outside of them and different friends and hobbies because that’s how two people grow together.
That’s how you share a life because you have an actual whole life to share with another person instead of just being an empty shell who’s gonna like cling on to a guy and be like, I have your life now and the very last thing and I think that this is really the most important is believe in your relationship.
I cannot tell you how many times I get this question and it always goes something like this. I’m dating this guy or this girl, they’re really great. But I think that they’re better than I am / more hot than I am / more popular / more sexually adventurous than I am and I’m scared. They’re going to find out that I suck and they’re going to break up with me stop.
Okay, because they are dating you just like you’re choosing to date them to spend your time with them. They’re doing the same with you. So you need to again trust in that you need to believe what this person is telling you and you need to work on your self-confidence because like that’s not okay. You can’t constantly be questioning this relationship because you think that your below your partner because you’re not it’s a relationship you’re equals and you need to realize that and you need to trust that they liked you and thought that’s why they’re spending time with you and there’s no negative motive here.
So I think as long as a relationship encompasses all of these things, you’re confident enough whole person who is trustworthy and honest and can communicate like you’re going to have a great relationship that being said not every relationship is going to work out even if you are a good partner, but that’s just where compatibility comes into it.
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