page title icon 4 Things A Man Will Do Only If He Really Loves You


four things that a man does if he wants a relationship with you. It doesn’t matter if you’re newly dating or you’ve been dating for a short while, you’re probably reading this article because you’re wondering what men think and if this man is really wasting your time or your energy?
You might wonder:

  • Do I invest more with this man
  • or do I wait and see what he does?
  • Does he really like me
  • or is he waiting for someone else to come along?

 When a man’s wholeheartedly invested in you there are certain things that he’ll do that are clear signs that he’s into you in a big way, which answers those nagging questions that keep running around in your head. 

By the end of this article, you won’t be turning in your bed overthinking his actions, or lack thereof.

It’s going to be clear how to tell if a guy likes you, really likes you, or if he’s just a seductive charmer with no intention of committing to you.

The first clear sign that his heart is the hook, line, and sinker caught on you is what I call.

#1 The Invisible Thread –

You could both be at a party talking to other people, even in separate places altogether, but somehow it feels like you’re still connected, tethered in some way, as though you’re both linked by a thread that’s exclusively visible to you.

Whether it’s the way he looks at you from across the room, or when he’s out and about doing other things, traveling for work or busy together with his children,

Also, a guy who’s really into you and values connection and intimacy won’t just be physically present on a date, he’ll be 100% with you.

He won’t be nodding in conversation while his eyes are roving around like a lifeguard at the beach!

#2 He wants to know WHO you are!

He will make an attempt to ask meaningful questions because he wants to understand you better. It’s a sign he appreciates your true qualities, inside and out.

A man who isn’t emotionally invested in you wouldn’t even bother to ask perhaps about your opinions, or what your dreams are, or even what you did yesterday.

He might just want to get naked with you… But a man who’s authentically interested in you will want to talk to you, experience things together, share his and your highs and lows.


Forget the guy who disappears at a vital point in his life or yours to be alone or to avoid helping you.

It’s like saying you are important, but only up to this point, only when it’s fun or when it suits them.

A man who’s interested in a relationship won’t run when life gets more complicated, because he will know curveballs are a part of life and relationships, and he wants to ride the curves balls with you.

Is He Losing Interest?

You might be using dangerous words and phrases that affect your man much more than you might realize. (Most women do this without even knowing it, and accidentally kill their man’s attraction towards them)

The good news is, you can make a simple shift in your thinking that can bring a level of attraction, love, and security to your relationships that you never imagined was possible!


#3 He wants to see you again… and again.

If he’s really into you nothing in the world is going to stop him from wanting to see you again. Men generally aren’t complex creatures; their actions aren’t too subtle to interpret.

Yes, they will be cagey and cautious, though as that fog clears up, bottom line is, he just wants to be with you again and as soon as possible.

And he will find ways to make it happen, even drop by your work because he just happened to be in the area.

Now for number 4

#4 He will be your comrade! –

Not only is he attracted to you, but he also wants to be your best friend and ally!

He will go to war for you, he will NOT want to be at war with you! I’ve been in relationships with men who had NO interest in being my comrade.

They were so ego-driven more or less detached from the connection that it almost never ran smoothly, there was always a bump in the road! My first relationship wasn’t like this

So, while you may not always agree on things, he will try his hardest to find common ground with you so you both feel comfortable and resolved.

He won’t provide you with an unrelenting attitude and therefore the ego treatment because he cherishes you and the relationship more so than his ego.

 It’s all about the willingness to know one another because you both value partnership! So there you have it the 4 things a man does if he wants a relationship with you! 

And really, it doesn’t matter why he’s not fully committed… whether he’s insecure, has emotional issues, or just waiting for someone “better.”

Note that there is someone better than you, though he thinks that’s there’s someone else out there who will be more aligned with him in some way, then that’s 100% okay,


let him go! I want you to be with a man who prioritizes you, who wants to know you, who loves to spend time with you, who communicates with you frequently, this is often what an emotionally-connected, loving.

Even if it’s the early stages of dating, it shouldn’t feel like a battle, it should largely flow and if it’s not flowing don’t try to force it.

Focus on what you do want and if he’s not working with you then know there really are many many more men to meet who will be what you’re looking for!

There are no such things as ONE man on the planet for you! There are plenty!


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