In this week’s article, I will be discussing 3 Little Texting Secrets Men Can’t Resist!Let’s talk about texting for a moment. Some people say well, I’m not trying to type of person that text. I just don’t like texting.
Well, if that’s the case, then you’re the weird one because everybody is texting it needs to be got over texting is one of those things that can be evil.
Both ways if you never text and you’re the person that only wants to be on the phone, then you miss vital opportunities to flirt and connect and have fun.
For example, you might send a text that says, “you looked cute today that you wouldn’t want to make a phone call for you would want to call someone up and go you looked cute today.”
All right, bye weird, but with texting, you can send that text is easy on the Other Extreme.
Of course, you have the person that takes 20 times a day and never calls that person is an idiot.
Have you ever been on a date for example and found that having texted and texted and texted and thought you got close you suddenly realize it’s really awkward because you’ve never actually had a proper conversation with that person such are the dangers of texting.
There are three things that I want to give you today. the first Texting Secrets Men Can’t Resist
1. Give value in your text messages.
when you say hey, what are you up to?
Hey, it both shows that your board and boring at the same time when you say hey, what are you up to?
It’s the equivalent of you saying please entertain me because I couldn’t be bothered to think of anything interesting to send you you entertain me.
So what are some interesting things you can do by takes? Well, one of them is sending a picture message pictures are great because you send a picture that reminds you of someone or in some way triggers a joke that you’ve both had or a memory.
You send it to them with a little caption saying why you think it’s relevant.
I got a text message recently in the last couple of days that was a picture of a house and outside.
There was a sign that said David’s house on the post box, which was funny. could either mean a cute little cottage or a whorehouse.
the second Texting Secrets Men Can’t Resist
2. Eliminate some of the question marks in your text messages.
I would much prefer to send someone a message saying hey, I’m doing this thing this weekend. You should come then saying hey, what you up to this weekend?
Do you want to come and join us when we do blah blah blah? One of them shows uncertainty one of them shows complete certainty and just you know, it’s going to be fun.
Why would you even ask if they want to come?
just tell them to come. don’t need to add the question mark and give them something to reject just be assumptive the certainty that comes with it communicates a much deeper level of confidence that you want someone to see you.
the third Texting Secrets Men Can’t Resist
3. Use text as a way to assert your standards and to communicate your standards.
I was recently telling the story of a Someone. I used to see in New York. We would see casually to each other.
I was traveling. I wasn’t living in New York. Okay, so stop judging ?.
I was there now and again traveling and I’d be like, hey you want to get together and I’d be like I have an hour.
Between these two meetings less each other. She said, “I’m not really a one-hour time slot kind of a girl”.
This was upon receiving a text message for me. She sent this I’m not really a one-hour time slot kind of a girl.
But if you want to take me on a date this week, that would be lovely. She put a winky face at the end.
That Changes everything. it wasn’t like I’m not really a one-hour time slot kind of a girl.
So if you want to take me on a date this weekend, that would be lovely.
It was a little wink, you know little cheeky as fine. It was playful ?.The tone was right, but the standard was there. That’s a great text immediately.
I saw her differently and the dynamic changed. So those are three things.
- You can do add value
- eliminate your questions
- show your standard through text messages
Or if you’re being treated as an option with a guy and want him to feel like you’re “the one” he’s been looking for his entire life…
Then pay close attention to this video because here’s a secret almost nobody is talking and can change everything for you if you understand how to use it.